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Kristoff

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Just got some worrying news. Some of you will know that my best friend since childhood has had breast cancer. It's been nearly two years since since she finished treatment and all was looking good. Except for headaches. She has been for a MRI scan and they have found a small tumour on the membrane between the brain and the skull. [emoji22]

They have said it's not metastatic (not the breast cancer that has spread). And ninety percent of this type of tumour are benign. She now has to go to see a neurologist. It's just not fair. She has been through so much. :(

Saw this last night. A big hug to you and your friend, Linda! Please tell her there’re positive thoughts pouring her way from around the world. Your friend is our friend [emoji173]️
 

kellygirl64

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Join the club !! But I am investing 2 American dollars in the lottery tonight n when I win, we all can meet at the Pirated-Penguin bar for mock-tails, on me of course !! Well, prob a table would be better, I'm still a bit lumpy feeling but it's getting better. Hugs.
Going to check my ticket now (It's many hours since original comment) wish us all luck !! Good luck Tortise Forum !!
 

Kristoff

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We have been together 33 years, married for 28. We cohabited for quite a while until we could afford to marry! :)

I always love seeing it when couples have been together for a long time. As I don't think that in this day and age that couples actually stay married for long anymore. Well done on the 33 years.

We’re only 10 this September.
 

Kristoff

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Hello, thanks for asking !! I was terribly ill but I survived, like usual (wink). I was able to find a great home for the tort I had taken in. I'm teary-eyed over it but he's really in a great home. I guess it happened faster than I had thought it would. I had pictured us sitting in a field, my sun-brella n comfy chair, along with a book (perhaps the essays of Montaigne I just picked up) that I could easily look over the top of to check on the tort who would be grazing like a mini lawnmower. I had already gotten a bunch of fencing and already asked the building super to notify me when he would be doing the landscaping. Which is probably many, many weeks away. I earned the raised eyebrow on that one seeing as he was putting snow shovels into his truck that day. I knew I wouldn't be keeping the tort, I have health issues and can never commit to any long term living critters anymore. I guess I was a bit more attached than I had realized. It was the bathing. His daily baths were a bonding sort for us (me anyway). I kept my hands in his running water to maintain temperature and we (uh, I ) would chat, enjoying the sunlight through the window over the sink and the warm waters were therapeutic for my arthritis and he never cringed or cried when I sang. I never have down-time and those daily events were hard to arrange but fully worth it. So I'm feeling ok-ish but looking forward to getting past all this. The multiple antibiotics made me terribly sick. Im facing some surgery soon as my health improves enough for it. Unrelated to my current issues but detected in my exams. I'm scared but that's life per say. I'm glad I'm able to stop by here and participate again. Hugs.

A big hug. I had to leave my loved ones (two torts, a cat, and a dog) behind when we moved. It helps to know they’re in good hands. Hope you feel better after the surgery.
 

JoesMum

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Oh, you both lived in sin .....:eek::D
Ouuch...... don`t hit me .... I will absequlate or something else immediately ....

It was funny really. In the 1980s there was kind of a mixed reaction to it. JoesDad and I met at university. He got a job in London and, 12 months later, so did I. Moving into his house share was the obvious thing to do.

My parents didn’t seem to mind. Or they knew better than to challenge it.

So I ended up sharing with three males for about 12 months before JoesDad and I got our own place.

I remember my Aunt asking me “What are the girls like that you’re sharing a house with?” I replied “They’re boys actually, but they’re very nice”. It went very quiet :D (My eldest cousin was only 11 and my Aunt has quite strong religious views)

Anyway, I broke the ground because both my cousins cohabited before marriage too and my Aunt and I are best friends still :)
 

JoesMum

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Hello, thanks for asking !! I was terribly ill but I survived, like usual (wink). I was able to find a great home for the tort I had taken in. I'm teary-eyed over it but he's really in a great home. I guess it happened faster than I had thought it would. I had pictured us sitting in a field, my sun-brella n comfy chair, along with a book (perhaps the essays of Montaigne I just picked up) that I could easily look over the top of to check on the tort who would be grazing like a mini lawnmower. I had already gotten a bunch of fencing and already asked the building super to notify me when he would be doing the landscaping. Which is probably many, many weeks away. I earned the raised eyebrow on that one seeing as he was putting snow shovels into his truck that day. I knew I wouldn't be keeping the tort, I have health issues and can never commit to any long term living critters anymore. I guess I was a bit more attached than I had realized. It was the bathing. His daily baths were a bonding sort for us (me anyway). I kept my hands in his running water to maintain temperature and we (uh, I ) would chat, enjoying the sunlight through the window over the sink and the warm waters were therapeutic for my arthritis and he never cringed or cried when I sang. I never have down-time and those daily events were hard to arrange but fully worth it. So I'm feeling ok-ish but looking forward to getting past all this. The multiple antibiotics made me terribly sick. Im facing some surgery soon as my health improves enough for it. Unrelated to my current issues but detected in my exams. I'm scared but that's life per say. I'm glad I'm able to stop by here and participate again. Hugs.
:(
Massive hugs, Kelly. I really feel for you.
 

JoesMum

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Good morning all.

The news from friends didn’t get any better yesterday. I was on too much of a downer to share. I have sorted myself out and am looking upwards and onwards now.

I bumped into a former colleague in the supermarket yesterday evening and we stopped for coffee. She wasn’t looking great and... it turns out she’s recovering from thyroid cancer. A PE teacher reduced to total exhaustion :(

A third former colleague spotted us and joined us. Her news was that another former colleague had died of bone cancer last week. I remember the day it all happened 4 years ago when he broke his arm teaching tennis to Year 6 simply by hitting the ball :(

What is it with Cancer? It’s a nasty, horrible illness! [emoji35]

So, I am currently angry with Cancer. Trying to work out how I can fundraise for the Cancer Research charity.

And cheering myself up with thoughts of being surrounded by family this weekend :) Tomorrow I am going to Southampton and will stay with daughter ... JoesDad is going to Bristol and will stay with son and on Friday we will meet in a mystery (to the CDR) location.

Hopefully the weather will allow postcards :)
 

CarolM

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Goodnight Carol. Time for me to turn in too.

Late news from Kent: son has signed the contract for his post graduate job. He starts at the end of July. Daughter and friend have been accepted for a flat rental. They move in mid April.
Yay, Lots of good news and congratulations for you and the family.
 

CarolM

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Good morning all.

The news from friends didn’t get any better yesterday. I was on too much of a downer to share. I have sorted myself out and am looking upwards and onwards now.

I bumped into a former colleague in the supermarket yesterday evening and we stopped for coffee. She wasn’t looking great and... it turns out she’s recovering from thyroid cancer. A PE teacher reduced to total exhaustion :(

A third former colleague spotted us and joined us. Her news was that another former colleague had died of bone cancer last week. I remember the day it all happened 4 years ago when he broke his arm teaching tennis to Year 6 simply by hitting the ball :(

What is it with Cancer? It’s a nasty, horrible illness! [emoji35]

So, I am currently angry with Cancer. Trying to work out how I can fundraise for the Cancer Research charity.

And cheering myself up with thoughts of being surrounded by family this weekend :) Tomorrow I am going to Southampton and will stay with daughter ... JoesDad is going to Bristol and will stay with son and on Friday we will meet in a mystery (to the CDR) location.

Hopefully the weather will allow postcards :)
Oh nooooooooo. That is such terrible news to have to deal with. One on top of the other. Very big electronic hugs.
 

CarolM

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Life can be very cruel. Let me hug you Carol. A big, long comforting hug.
Thank you Sabine, My Mom crossed the Rainbow Bridge 25 years ago. I have dealt with the pain and sorrow. This year has just brought it to the forefront of my mind as I am the same age as my Mom was when she crossed. But it is all good. It is life, and I very firmly believe that you have a set time to be born, a set time to die and it is what you do with the time inbetween that counts.
 

CarolM

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Every evening ( my evening or night ) the same .... all busy and gone. Sniiiffffff:(:(:(
I am going to search my bed too. Good night.
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It's called having a long distance relationship. ;)
 
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