COLD DARK ROOM

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It’s a nasty cold week in my part of the world.. to cold for my sullies to go outside & they are not happy about it.. Neither am I!!!! Looks like it’s been pretty quiet in the CDR too.... I expected to be farther behind than I was on everyone’s post :-(
My nephew continues to stay in trouble in school and is one step away from getting expelled... I don’t know what I’ll do at that point because my job does not leave me in a position to drive a child to & from school every day.. my husband is only home 2 weeks out of the month. I’m truly at my wits end... how do you help someone who refuses to help them self???

That is a tough one. He’s obviously hurting inside. The only option I see is counseling or an away “camp” for troubled teens but that sounds expensive. Are there any resources thru the school?
So sorry.
 

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It’s a nasty cold week in my part of the world.. to cold for my sullies to go outside & they are not happy about it.. Neither am I!!!! Looks like it’s been pretty quiet in the CDR too.... I expected to be farther behind than I was on everyone’s post :-(
My nephew continues to stay in trouble in school and is one step away from getting expelled... I don’t know what I’ll do at that point because my job does not leave me in a position to drive a child to & from school every day.. my husband is only home 2 weeks out of the month. I’m truly at my wits end... how do you help someone who refuses to help them self???
What does he say when you sit him down and have a heart-to-heart? Ask him if he thinks living with you is a good idea or would he rather go into foster care? See if you can draw him out and then really listen to what he says.
 

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It’s a nasty cold week in my part of the world.. to cold for my sullies to go outside & they are not happy about it.. Neither am I!!!! Looks like it’s been pretty quiet in the CDR too.... I expected to be farther behind than I was on everyone’s post :-(
My nephew continues to stay in trouble in school and is one step away from getting expelled... I don’t know what I’ll do at that point because my job does not leave me in a position to drive a child to & from school every day.. my husband is only home 2 weeks out of the month. I’m truly at my wits end... how do you help someone who refuses to help them self???
So sorry it is cold. That is a really difficult one. I am not sure what to say other than I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.
 

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Good Dsy Alles,

Just back from Lowe’s with a few bags of Cypress mulch - Sullys substrate and play ground from now until he can get back outside in Spring 2019. Ive had good luck with cypress as a substrate, it’s not dusty, doesn't mold or mildew, maintains moisture, doesn't break down.

I guess I should soon post a pix of Sullys new and improved heated night box. Or, send teaser pix for a few more months....
Nooooo. We want to see the end result.
 

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Hey all its been awhile since I've checked in here there's no way I can catch up lol. Hope everyone is doing well. I've been in contact with Tortstork today and I'm ordering a Cherryhead Redfoot egg from him that should arrive next month just days away from hatching. I'm super excited! I've always wanted to hatch my own baby Turtle/Tortoise. Looks like Murphy is going to have a baby brother or sister! Also as of a few weeks ago, and a short quarantine, Snap now has a new tank mate meet "Spud"View attachment 254285
Oh that is exciting news. And HELLO THERE little Spud welcome you gorgeous thing.
 

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I’m sorta stressing today.
I’m hosting a mini family reunion Saturday and I’m cleaning which I told myself I wasn’t going to go crazy but one chore leads to another. I wanted our new closet done so I could fill it up with our clothes and get it all cleaned up but our contractor is working so slow it’s driving me crazy.
Oh dear. That sounds so stressful.
 

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I’m sorta stressing today.
I’m hosting a mini family reunion Saturday and I’m cleaning which I told myself I wasn’t going to go crazy but one chore leads to another. I wanted our new closet done so I could fill it up with our clothes and get it all cleaned up but our contractor is working so slow it’s driving me crazy.
Maybe it's time to get a folding screen or two, maybe put up curtains in the middle of a hallway to block the view... :p
 

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What does he say when you sit him down and have a heart-to-heart? Ask him if he thinks living with you is a good idea or would he rather go into foster care? See if you can draw him out and then really listen to what he says.

He so agreeable and full of “yes mams” that it’s sickening.. I can’t seem to really get through.. and usually I’m good at that.. I have asked him what he wants, we he likes, etc... I’m just not sure what to believe from him now..:-(
 

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I’m sorta stressing today.
I’m hosting a mini family reunion Saturday and I’m cleaning which I told myself I wasn’t going to go crazy but one chore leads to another. I wanted our new closet done so I could fill it up with our clothes and get it all cleaned up but our contractor is working so slow it’s driving me crazy.

Hopefully tomorrow is better.. crossing my fingers!
 

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Look! It's a stranger, o wait.. it's just me[emoji12]
Hope everybody is well, perhaps Carol will give me one of her awesome summaries.
Hubby is currently dealing with an "offer war" between three jobs, apparently his resume was quite the catch (I'll take credit for that).
We are currently looking at jobs in..
Oklahoma- this interview was just a couple days ago and it went really well, but they want to do a "test" online before deciding what pay they want to offer. The benefits package are amazing though!
Texas- we we're looking at two jobs here but declined one. The remaining possiblity is a newer company that really needs a full time mechanic/technician, they originally offered an "entry-level" pay which we had turned down but they contacted us back with a new, more reasonable offer. This was after four machines went down in a week and they had to hire people to come in and fix them. Apparently the cost was enough for them to rethink having someone with experience on hand. Benefits are OK.
Montana- I think I mentioned this one last time I was on. The interview went great but there is a lot of pros and cons about the job. Only a couple days after the interview they contacted us back and requested ANOTHER interview before we had given a response to their offer. They have made it clear that they may want to increase the offer if this one goes well also. The pros for this job are that this is a management job and hubby will be running his own shop with a small crew, they offer a monthly bonus depending on how profitable business was, it's in a VERY small town. Cons are that insurance is pretty high and the actual base pay isn't that great.
We turned down the job in Missouri.
I decided not to do the large commission piece, the individual just couldn't seem to decide on what they wanted so I told them that I wasn't sure if I would have time to complete it before the move.
I Ruined the piece that I was working on after I spilt a glass of milk on it... Yep, I cried over the spilt milk.
So now im working on a different piece, trying out a new type of paper that I'm liking so far.
Daughter has been taking swimming lessons.. she takes after me and sinks like a rock.
Hubby has been trying to work on Clunker's wagon when the weather permits. When it's raining or to cold we try to get more stuff done inside the house.
Gosh I think that about sums it up for me! It's so nice to be able to chat about what's going on in my life, and to hear about what's going on in the lives of others.
 

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Look! It's a stranger, o wait.. it's just me[emoji12]
Hope everybody is well, perhaps Carol will give me one of her awesome summaries.
Hubby is currently dealing with an "offer war" between three jobs, apparently his resume was quite the catch (I'll take credit for that).
We are currently looking at jobs in..
Oklahoma- this interview was just a couple days ago and it went really well, but they want to do a "test" online before deciding what pay they want to offer. The benefits package are amazing though!
Texas- we we're looking at two jobs here but declined one. The remaining possiblity is a newer company that really needs a full time mechanic/technician, they originally offered an "entry-level" pay which we had turned down but they contacted us back with a new, more reasonable offer. This was after four machines went down in a week and they had to hire people to come in and fix them. Apparently the cost was enough for them to rethink having someone with experience on hand. Benefits are OK.
Montana- I think I mentioned this one last time I was on. The interview went great but there is a lot of pros and cons about the job. Only a couple days after the interview they contacted us back and requested ANOTHER interview before we had given a response to their offer. They have made it clear that they may want to increase the offer if this one goes well also. The pros for this job are that this is a management job and hubby will be running his own shop with a small crew, they offer a monthly bonus depending on how profitable business was, it's in a VERY small town. Cons are that insurance is pretty high and the actual base pay isn't that great.
We turned down the job in Missouri.
I decided not to do the large commission piece, the individual just couldn't seem to decide on what they wanted so I told them that I wasn't sure if I would have time to complete it before the move.
I Ruined the piece that I was working on after I spilt a glass of milk on it... Yep, I cried over the spilt milk.
So now im working on a different piece, trying out a new type of paper that I'm liking so far.
Daughter has been taking swimming lessons.. she takes after me and sinks like a rock.
Hubby has been trying to work on Clunker's wagon when the weather permits. When it's raining or to cold we try to get more stuff done inside the house.
Gosh I think that about sums it up for me! It's so nice to be able to chat about what's going on in my life, and to hear about what's going on in the lives of others.
I will give you summary a little later. As now need to get ready for work and school rum etc. Chat later. BTW it all sounds really good. Which job is Hubby leaning towards?
 

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