I totally see everyone's point. And I will say that if I were in her shoes, I may have done the same, as far as calling the other woman's husband. But I also would be kicking my husband out and filing for divorce. Trust is an extremely difficult thing to mend. My own past experiences have taught me that. But if they think they can rebuild the trust, then they should try. If it's TRULY a mutual want. I still wish you the best OP!
Well said Tom.
Well said Tom.