Pretend Chat 2.14

Gillian M

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Its not easy, and everyones situation is different.

If anyone needs to talk I always have a ear open to talk. Just message me!
That really is nice of you. I have only been able to find ONE and only ONE friend with...'listening ears' here. All the rest of the people I know only give useless lectures, thinking they're FREUDs!
 

Gillian M

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Good day Gillian can't think who you're talking about! Sorry I wasn't here earlier to wish you a good day too- had a busy day commanding the troops ,,,er sorry - that should be teaching my little darlings!
Hope you have had a lovely day though
Good evening Lyn. So...you can't figure out who I meant. Fair enough-I'll give you a few hints and you guess, OK?
-A female
-Her first name begins with the letter L
-She has a cute little tortoise
-She's an active member at Tortoise Forum
-She's a teacher
-She's a very sweet person

Now do you know who I meant by 'DER FUHRER?' Hope so!

As for me, or rather my day, well it wasn't the best. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow morning.
 

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Good evening Lyn. So...you can't figure out who I meant. Fair enough-I'll give you a few hints and you guess, OK?
-A female
-Her first name begins with the letter L
-She has a cute little tortoise
-She's an active member at Tortoise Forum
-She's a teacher
-She's a very sweet person

Now do you know who I meant by 'DER FUHRER?' Hope so!

As for me, or rather my day, well it wasn't the best. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow morning.

Well I definitely match 5/6 of the above so i'm guessing it could be me then :rolleyes: Thank you for your kind words!

Sorry you have to visit the docs tomorrow Gillian I hope all is OK and you have better days after it.

I had to visit my docs last week for a tetanus jab after being bitten - - - by a pupil!
An occupational hazard!
 

Gillian M

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Well I definitely match 5/6 of the above so i'm guessing it could be me then :rolleyes: Thank you for your kind words!

Sorry you have to visit the docs tomorrow Gillian I hope all is OK and you have better days after it.

I had to visit my docs last week for a tetanus jab after being bitten - - - by a pupil!
An occupational hazard!
Now which one of the six did you NOT apply to yourself? I wonder..hmmm. I meant what I said, no need to thank me, Lyn.

Am going to see the doctor for sleep that's been giving me so much trouble lately. As I think you know, I walk a lot, tire myself out but when I go to bed-no matter what time-I keep tossing and turning in bed, with all sorts of NEGATIVE thoughts racing through my mind. Two things I do know: l am very lonley here PLUS I'm an extremely sensitive person. (So sorry Lyn, I didn't mean to disturb you).

Did you really get bitten by a pupil? Why, if I may ask?
 

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Now which one of the six did you NOT apply to yourself? I wonder..hmmm. I meant what I said, no need to thank me, Lyn.

Am going to see the doctor for sleep that's been giving me so much trouble lately. As I think you know, I walk a lot, tire myself out but when I go to bed-no matter what time-I keep tossing and turning in bed, with all sorts of NEGATIVE thoughts racing through my mind. Two things I do know: l am very lonley here PLUS I'm an extremely sensitive person. (So sorry Lyn, I didn't mean to disturb you).

Did you really get bitten by a pupil? Why, if I may ask?
Gillian, good luck tomorrow.
Not sleeping is horrible.
My advice is to sleep right on the very edge of the bed.
You'll soon drop off.
 

Lyn W

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Now which one of the six did you NOT apply to yourself? I wonder..hmmm. I meant what I said, no need to thank me, Lyn.

Am going to see the doctor for sleep that's been giving me so much trouble lately. As I think you know, I walk a lot, tire myself out but when I go to bed-no matter what time-I keep tossing and turning in bed, with all sorts of NEGATIVE thoughts racing through my mind. Two things I do know: l am very lonley here PLUS I'm an extremely sensitive person. (So sorry Lyn, I didn't mean to disturb you).

Did you really get bitten by a pupil? Why, if I may ask?

Yes Gillian the little blighter did sink his teeth in - I've got the scars to prove it - but he was a very angry young man and totally out of control so just lashing out - it wasn't personal - not as personal as me removing his teeth will be!;) He is actually a nice kid but when the red mist comes he can't help himself, this is par for the course in my job I wish it wasn't for the kids' sakes but there aren't too many who get into that state at the moment so we do what we can to help them manage it.

I'm sorry to hear you can't sleep there is nothing worse when you are tired and can't sleep. I don't know what to suggest that you probably haven't already tried. I went through a very stressful phase years ago and found relaxation recordings of oceans or countryside sounds helped, but it is different for everyone. If I can think of anything I will let you know. Also sorry to hear you are lonely, I don't know of your circumstances or opportunities to socialise in Jordan but they are going to be very different to ours in UK so it would be crass of me to make any suggestions. I do hope the doc can help though.

Meanwhile there's always a few crazy people here to hopefully take your mind off things and make you smile,
 
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Gillian M

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Yes Gillian the little blighter did sink his teeth - I've got the scars to prove it - but he was a very angry young man and totally out of control so just lashing out - it wasn't personal - not as personal as me removing his teeth will be!;) He is actually a nice kid but when the red mist comes he can't help himself, this is par for the course in my job I wish it wasn't for the kids' sakes but there aren't too many who get into that state at the moment so we do what we can to help them manage it.

I'm sorry to hear you can't sleep there is nothing worse when you are tired and can't sleep. I don't know what to suggest that you probably haven't already tried. I went through a very stressful phase years ago and found relaxation recordings of oceans or countryside sounds helped, but it is different for everyone. If I can think of anything I will let you know. Also sorry to hear you are lonely, I don't know of your circumstances or opportunities to socialise in Jordan but they are going to be very different to ours in UK so it would be crass of me to make any suggestions. I do hope the doc can help though.

Meanwhile there's always a few crazy people here to hopefully take your mind off things and make you smile,
Lyn, thanks so much your kindness and understanding. I have tried walking, reading books, watching TV, all of which doctors think bring sleep, but...no way would sleep come.I live alone with OLI (my tort), and have not been able to make TRUE friends here. Sorry to say it, when people are of different nationalities, cultures, have different mentalities, speak different languages and so on, it is very hard to give and take with them. Know what I mean? That is, with all my respect to everyone-no offence. Furthermore, I am unemployed making things twice as difficult. I just do not know what on earth to do to kill time!

Regret to have 'heard' that terrible story of the pupil who bit you. Sincerely hope you are now better. And, SO SORRY to have disturbed you.
 
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