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- Jul 16, 2014
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- South Eastern Florida (U.S.A.)/Rock Hill S.C.
She's in Georgia.Oh no! I'm so sorry that you have this constant worry! Since I'm quite sure you have ruled out the possibility of bringing her home with you for a while, all I can do for you both is pray. And that I have already been doing. ?
I'm in Florida, 600 miles away.
She has many medical issues and requires around the clock care.
The facility uses her monthly social security payment, some cash from myself, Medicare and Medicaid and the two states don't have any sort of reciprocity. So simply moving her becomes extremely difficult.
She'd need to be in a nursing home if she was in Florida also. I'm in no condition to provide that kind of intensive care. And
It would take many months to get everything approved. (If it even was a certainty)
When I met my wife, her mother was in the final stages of Alzheimers disease and she and I moved her from one specialized facility to the next. She was beaten, had items stolen and at one point became malnourished.
I have no faith in any facility (here) nearby. And I'm very pleased with the care where she is (there) and with the management and nursing staff.
There are too many reasons to keep her at her current facility.
We are in almost daily contact in regards to her care.
Couple that with the fact that even if everything else was equal, Broward Florida is also a horrible place for COVID-19 and nursing homes.
Mom has her own phone. We speak each day and she seems to not have much concept of time. So not visiting right now hasn't been a big issue yet.
This is something I approach on a day to day basis