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Lyn W

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Oh Kathy, I so feel for you. My daughter would not nap ever. It was exhausting.

At 17 months they're very defiant and, I hate to say this, but tough love involving a bed in a safe place and a child gate so he can't get out is needed.

You also find that the better he sleeps at night the worse they sleep by day and I know which I prefer.

I used to take her out for long walks in the pushchair. She'd fall asleep and then I would leave her asleep in the pushchair outside the back door (with rain cover and blankets as necessary) while I got on with my jobs. It was the only way.

We used controlled crying to get her to stay asleep at night.

Night 1: She cried, we would go and comfort her but not pick her up and then leave her, returning every 15 minutes until she was asleep. It took forever and a lot of stress for me.

Night 2: Same again, but every 20 minutes - it took about 2 hours.

Night 3: She gave up after half an hour and slept through the night. :)
If I had a crying baby I would take them for a long walk in the pushchair and leave them outside someone else's back door!!;)
 

Lyn W

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What in the world is detention? :/ If it's what I think, then I had a couple of third-graders who needed that!
My school has banned the word 'detention' - its now called 'Catch Up' time.:rolleyes:
I'm not sure of that's catch up with your work or students and teachers catch up with each other to find out what they've all been doing or maybe it was 'ketchup' time and they have a tomato sauce fight to resolve their differences. I'll have to organise a session to find out what happens;)
 

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Maybe not a bad idea.
In my youngest days we had the cane, the ruler and the slipper.
That didn't work.
My biggest fear when I got into trouble at school was my parents finding out.
If I was in trouble in school I was in double trouble at home!
Not all parents are as supportive of schools these days, but automatically blame them and let their kids get away with murder.
 

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My biggest fear when I got into trouble at school was my parents finding out.
If I was in trouble in school I was in double trouble at home!
Not all parents are as supportive of schools these days, but automatically blame them and let their kids get away with murder.
I know what you mean.
I was not afraid of my teachers at all, it was just a game to me, but if they threatened to tell my parents, I was truly terrified and behaved myself.
For a while.
 

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Hi Adam, its taken me a while to catch up tonight!
Busy Day in the CDR
Hope you have a good weekend too and don't have to work too hard with your students.
Yup, lovely and busy today.:)
Nice to not see you, too though, Lyn.
I have just two hours tomorrow and then Zacariah's coming to play in the evening, not seen him since my Spain trip, he's had exams, so it'll be good to catch up. :).
 

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Yup, lovely and busy today.:)
Nice to not see you, too though, Lyn.
I have just two hours tomorrow and then Zacariah's coming to play in the evening, not seen him since my Spain trip, he's had exams, so it'll be good to catch up. :).
Should be fun - hope Zac's successful in his exams
 

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