With all the pictures you've been posting lately, I'm not seeing any of an enclosure for Toby. I know you love him, and like to interact with him, but he needs a space to call his own. He needs to be able to sit under a light and warm up. Your body temp is around 98.6F degrees. Toby also need to get his inner core temperature up high in order to digest his food. Does he have a place where he can do that?
Except most of them will nod their head. My leopard does when I kiss is cute little face. In my own little head, I'm telling myself that he is telling me he likes it with his head bobs and so, I will kiss him again. Could this be the same thing with you. Either way, whatever you want too think is okay with us