Don't feel that way... as long as you care about your animals, then you're a good owner. People just over-exaggerate over enclosure size sometimes...
No, we don't over exaggerate on enclosure size. No one has said to go buy a couple acre piece of land for the torts. We just are trying to educate on what is wrong. Do you understand the amount of ground these tortoises cover in the wild? No, we can't duplicate that, but we should do our best to give them a proper size enclosure. Most of us uses that size for one hatchling. Hurt feelings can be diminished if research is done first. No one, including me, is trying to make her feel bad. Did I not say SORRY at the end of my first post that everyone thinks is so terrible. The first member that thought I was too harsh gave no help to this person at all. There are many ways to keep both tortoises if you so choose. This is the place to learn. We all have learned from here and are still learning. Take the advice given and implement as much as possible. Do not take it personally, it's not meant as a bashing on you, it's meant as help only on what you are doing wrong. We all have done wrong, came here and learned the right way. Your a bad mum, only when you stop learning, listening and caring and trying to do your best.