Rynan
Active Member
Kind of curious where I got butt hurt or what bad stuff I did.There it is, see how defensive it got? Tact is needed for sure. My point is it's a good act to get all the right information out there. But people and situations are case by case. Clearly ganging up on him isn't changing his mind atm but encourgaining small changes might open up to bigger changes. But rather than staying on the issue now it's about character and apparently I'm now on the outside because I'm not siding with anyone.
My point being if you get them to be defensive then they are less willing to listen to the message. I've only used the word "jerk" and you wrote me an essay. Imaging if I used the word "****" or "dickish".
Pretty sure I wasn't writing in spanish either. -troll line, another example on how words would affect the conversation.
Additionally, I think your time is very valuable and I think you are in the right. I'm just suggesting a different approach and praising Evan's intentions, I'm not saying what he's doing is right but I can see he's trying. After all, he tried to find a good place for information by landing on this forumn, he just got defensive. He'll probably see the benefit. Information takes time to digest.
Please don't write me another essay...