Thanks! I tried rubbing and it does not give off a lemony or minty smell, it just smells like a typical weed/earthy, if that makes sense.I'm getting lemon balm, although that doesn't seem exact. Rub a leaf, it should smell lemony. Maybe minty.
There are other balms but I've only grown lemon. They are all in the mint family and safe, but unlikely to be eaten because of the strong scent.