Maybe you can have a scheduled time to be on the forum, and when he's home, maybe you can give him that time he needs. But, don't spend an hour with him watching t.v.and then get back on the forum. See what works for you both, or you may lose a boyfriend. Is it worth it? Then, there's, "if you can't beat them, join them." Sign him up on the forum, buy him a tortoise, and he'll be as hooked as you are