randominique
Member
Hello,
As I’ve learnt more and more about tortoise care, I have realized that I haven’t been giving my tortoise the best life. If you would like to know more about my tortoise’s living conditions, here they are:
https://www.tortoiseforum.org/threads/i-have-neglected-my-russian-please-help-me-change.219622/
I’ve tried to talk to my parents (I am 13 and cannot buy/build anything for my tortoise) about this issue, mostly my dad because he’s the one who’s more involved in my tortoise’s life, but they are still convinced he’s fine and living a good life. I even sent my dad a Google Doc that contains links to a bunch of threads providing information on tortoise care, and out of the 10+ links I gave him, he read…one. Not the one about beginner mistakes, not the one about proper care, just the one with a couple housing ideas. My dad still insists my tortoise’s tiny 2x4 house is fine because “he’s a small tortoise and doesn’t need a large enclosure, like the guy at the pet store said!”
Honestly, this ignorance makes me pretty mad. I don’t want you guys to think that my parents are abusive, ignorant people who don’t care about their pet, they’re really good people, but they really need to realize that something has to be done. I don’t even know if my parents would allow me to rehome my tortoise, so informing them is my only decision. How do I get them to realize that something needs to be changed?
As I’ve learnt more and more about tortoise care, I have realized that I haven’t been giving my tortoise the best life. If you would like to know more about my tortoise’s living conditions, here they are:
https://www.tortoiseforum.org/threads/i-have-neglected-my-russian-please-help-me-change.219622/
I’ve tried to talk to my parents (I am 13 and cannot buy/build anything for my tortoise) about this issue, mostly my dad because he’s the one who’s more involved in my tortoise’s life, but they are still convinced he’s fine and living a good life. I even sent my dad a Google Doc that contains links to a bunch of threads providing information on tortoise care, and out of the 10+ links I gave him, he read…one. Not the one about beginner mistakes, not the one about proper care, just the one with a couple housing ideas. My dad still insists my tortoise’s tiny 2x4 house is fine because “he’s a small tortoise and doesn’t need a large enclosure, like the guy at the pet store said!”
Honestly, this ignorance makes me pretty mad. I don’t want you guys to think that my parents are abusive, ignorant people who don’t care about their pet, they’re really good people, but they really need to realize that something has to be done. I don’t even know if my parents would allow me to rehome my tortoise, so informing them is my only decision. How do I get them to realize that something needs to be changed?

