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Lyn W

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Oh, dear!
Sorry, Lyn.
Thanks but its a blessing really. An old friend of mine was diagnosed with a brain tumour back in the 80's, survived surgery, had a holiday romance and wed a Scots lass and they have had over 30 years together of fantastic travel which I never imagined he would have. The tumour was found to be growing again last Dec and he has deteriorated gradually since and suffered terribly so I am sad for the loss but happy he is at peace now. I haven't seen him in years but we were always in touch.
 

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Yup, it's usually not what you say but how you say it.
And when. Watch how many people make the same suggestion before it's accepted sometimes.

Some people respond positively to new information from the outset. I love how open to learning they are, how focused on the job at hand, how they don't get defensive. A receptive attitude is great.
 

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Smells of coconut oil, salt and tourists!
I do like a walk on/near the beach out of season though autumn/winter time and we have beaches with mountains and fantastic cliffs. Ever been to Southendown Adam? Very interesting geological features and fossils
 

Lyn W

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And when. Watch how many people make the same suggestion before it's accepted sometimes.

Some people respond positively to new information from the outset. I love how open to learning they are, how focused on the job at hand, how they don't get defensive. A receptive attitude is great.
I always think whats the point of asking for advice if you're not going to accept it.
 

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Thanks but its a blessing really. An old friend of mine was diagnosed with a brain tumour back in the 80's, survived surgery, had a holiday romance and wed a Scots lass and they have had over 30 years together of fantastic travel which I never imagined he would have. The tumour was found to be growing again last Dec and he has deteriorated gradually since and suffered terribly so I am sad for the loss but happy he is at peace now. I haven't seen him in years but we were always in touch.
Sorry Lyn. I was on another thread. Sorry for your loss.
 

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And when. Watch how many people make the same suggestion before it's accepted sometimes.

Some people respond positively to new information from the outset. I love how open to learning they are, how focused on the job at hand, how they don't get defensive. A receptive attitude is great.
I know, but some people simply find it hard to understand, others are confused because of what they've read or heard elsewhere, and then, yes there's a small number who just won't be told.
But these are the challenges that make it so interesting.
 

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I know, but some people simply find it hard to understand, others are confused because of what they've read or heard elsewhere, and then, yes there's a small number who just won't be told.
But these are the challenges that make it so interesting.
Interesting to some. irritating to others. I lack any real patience. Perhaps you've noticed?
 

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I do like a walk on/near the beach out of season though autumn/winter time and we have beaches with mountains and fantastic cliffs. Ever been to Southendown Adam? Very interesting geological features and fossils
Yes, near Bridgend where my family come from.
The whole area is littered with fossil sites.
Nice cliffs indeed.
 
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