COLD DARK ROOM

[Lyn W]

And now having read lots of pages I've caught up but my eyes are tired and I need to shut them for a while!
So will say Nos da now and hopefully speak over the weekend.
Try to get some rest as well @Tidgy's Dad.
Wishing you a peaceful night.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

I am quite upset that it has been suggested that i think the calendar competition stuff is a popularity vote for me.
Now, i confess to sensitive moments but i NEVER asked or required of people to vote for The Tidge in the comp.
Last year and this year, many of you did not vote Tidgy and I think you all know that it is not a problem for us.
(though pleased for those who did.)
Indeed, most didn't vote Tidgy, can't understand, but won't effect any relationships.
yes, of course i want Tidgy to do well, but I will not expect votes from people because it's me.
I love you all and voting for another beast is not going to make any difference.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

And now having read lots of pages I've caught up but my eyes are tired and I need to shut them for a while!
So will say Nos da now and hopefully speak over the weekend.
Try to get some rest as well @Tidgy's Dad.
Wishing you a peaceful night.

Only when justice is done.
Sleepless nights ahead , I feel.

 

[Lyn W]

Only when justice is done.
Sleepless nights ahead , I feel.

It's a shame there have been problems again.
I wish you and Tidgy the very best of luck though!
I don't know who I've voted for - it was difficult - they were all lovely!
Night Night

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

It's a shame there have been problems again.
I wish you and Tidgy the very best of luck though!
I don't know who I've voted for - it was difficult - they were all lovely!
Night Night

Night night , Lyn.
Indeed, most are lovely, honest voting is not a problem for Tidge and me.

 

[Prairie Mom]

I am quite upset that it has been suggested that i think the calendar competition stuff is a popularity vote for me.
Now, i confess to sensitive moments but i NEVER asked or required of people to vote for The Tidge in the comp.
Last year and this year, many of you did not vote Tidgy and I think you all know that it is not a problem for us.
(though pleased for those who did.)
Indeed, most didn't vote Tidgy, can't understand, but won't effect any relationships.
yes, of course i want Tidgy to do well, but I will not expect votes from people because it's me.
I love you all and voting for another beast is not going to make any difference.

Adam---I was NOT implying that you even said it was a popularity contest. I truly wasn't. That statement was my own. It came from me. I was not implying that you were saying that. I wasn't! I didn't think you would take this the way you have at all!

I WAS concerned that you might be taking the voting too personally though. I considered writing a detailed response to your long post to try to clarify things, because you put some words in my mouth that were not accurate, but I thought it better to simply let you know that I wasn't trying to be hurtful and assumed you would take the high road. Nothing I said was meant to be hurtful or mean. Nothing. That is not the place I was coming from. In fact, believe it or not, I was feeling somewhat protective of your feelings and trying to convince you that these are simply photos and not a reflection of how people feel about you, your worth, how beautiful Tidgy etc. That's all the intention was. I'm sorry that I phrased things in a way that hurt you. That truly was not my intention.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Adam---I was NOT implying that you even said it was a popularity contest. I truly wasn't. That statement was my own. It came from me. I was not implying that you were saying that. I wasn't! I didn't think you would take this the way you have at all!

I WAS concerned that you might be taking the voting too personally though. I considered writing a detailed response to your long post to try to clarify things, because you put some words in my mouth that were not accurate, but I thought it better to simply let you know that I wasn't trying to be hurtful and assumed you would take the high road. Nothing I said was meant to be hurtful or mean. Nothing. That is not the place I was coming from. In fact, believe it or not, I was feeling somewhat protective of your feelings and trying to convince you that these are simply photos and not a reflection of how people feel about you, your worth, how beautiful Tidgy etc. That's all the intention was. I'm sorry that I phrased things in a way that hurt you. That truly was not my intention.

Thanks, but seemed mean to me.
Whatever, i need to react.

 

[Prairie Mom]

Thanks, but seemed mean to me.
Whatever, i need to react.

Here you go. I'll detail MY OWN post for you rather than responding to yours.
Quoting my original post:
"Just remember it's not a popularity contest. If you don't get the number of votes, it doesn't mean that you are not loved." --I was not implying that you made it a popularity contest. I didn't think you were saying this. I was trying to use a quick way to explain it's about the photos not the people. Also used the word "loved" to remind you of how much myself and many other forum members love and adore you.
"No one is voting for the person they like best...They are picking photos they would like to see in a calendar." - I thought this explained what I was trying to say pretty well.

Wanna hear how I voted??? Nope, I'm pretty sure I didn't vote for Tidgy last year. (Also, I don't really think you should be keeping track of these things!) I often do not vote for photos with "props." There's nothing wrong with them. Most people find them adorable. It's just not my preference. Here's how I DID vote THIS year. One photo is my honest-to-goodness favorite (I loved the expression on the tort's face), but me being this silly girl that is actually concerned about people's feelings, I also wanted to make sure everyone had at least one vote. Because of your statements, I now hope that they will consider making the voting anonymous in the future.

"With the photos cleaned up, I suppose it means there are more options and more fair competition. It really shouldn't be taken personally." -I'm sorry if people changed their vote. Yes, it's too bad the page wasn't perfect in the first place, but stuff happens. More clear photos, means there are more photos to choose from and I'm sorry if people switched their vote, but again they are not trying to hurt you.

"You have a beautiful and very loved tortoise." -Again, trying to remind you that it's not even about the tortoise or their excellent quality of care, but a simple photo. It's not supposed to be taken personally and I was complimenting your beastie.

I'm sorry about your voter who doesn't post often, but it's a vote for a photo NOT a tort and not you. ---Then my silly hearts because the intention of my post was to show you that I do care about your feelings and wish you to feel happy and peaceful

Now, if you're still mad. There's nothing I can do. I was NOT trying to be mean and really don't feel like I was even accidentally being mean. Sorry you're hurt. The forum is supposed to be fun and informative.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Here you go. I'll detail MY OWN post for you rather than responding to yours.
Quoting my original post:
"Just remember it's not a popularity contest. If you don't get the number of votes, it doesn't mean that you are not loved." --I was not implying that you made it a popularity contest. I didn't think you were saying this. I was trying to use a quick way to explain it's about the photos not the people. Also used the word "loved" to remind you of how much myself and many other forum members love and adore you.
"No one is voting for the person they like best...They are picking photos they would like to see in a calendar." - I thought this explained what I was trying to say pretty well.

Wanna hear how I voted??? Nope, I'm pretty sure I didn't vote for Tidgy last year. (Also, I don't really think you should be keeping track of these things!) I often do not vote for photos with "props." There's nothing wrong with them. Most people find them adorable. It's just not my preference. Here's how I DID vote THIS year. One photo is my honest-to-goodness favorite (I loved the expression on the tort's face), but me being this silly girl that is actually concerned about people's feelings, I also wanted to make sure everyone had at least one vote. Because of your statements, I now hope that they will consider making the voting anonymous in the future.

"With the photos cleaned up, I suppose it means there are more options and more fair competition. It really shouldn't be taken personally." -I'm sorry if people changed their vote. Yes, it's too bad the page wasn't perfect in the first place, but stuff happens. More clear photos, means there are more photos to choose from and I'm sorry if people switched their vote, but again they are not trying to hurt you.

"You have a beautiful and very loved tortoise." -Again, trying to remind you that it's not even about the tortoise or their excellent quality of care, but a simple photo. It's not supposed to be taken personally and I was complimenting your beastie.

I'm sorry about your voter who doesn't post often, but it's a vote for a photo NOT a tort and not you. ---Then my silly hearts because the intention of my post was to show you that I do care about your feelings and wish you to feel happy and peaceful

Now, if you're still mad. There's nothing I can do. I was NOT trying to be mean and really don't feel like I was even accidentally being mean. Sorry you're hurt. The forum is supposed to be fun and informative.

I don't understand.
I was not objecting to your vote this year or last.
I have no idea who you voted for, or even if you did last year, saw you voted this year but don't know , or care who for.
I think you are confused, I, in no way hoped you would , expected you would or was disappointed you didn't vote for Tidgy.
Sorry if you felt that, but can't understand why.
This thread is fun and informative.
But it belongs to a lot of people and was, once upon a time, my refuge.
Personal promotion.
But i'm gone now, nobody is actually interested, this beast belongs to others.
You are such an intelligent being.
I am overwhelmed.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Please believe , peeps , i am keeping score for Tidgy, but don't know who the rest of you voted for this year or last and it's not a worry for me.
For example, (and i hope you don't mind, Lyn,) Lyn didn't vote for Tidge last year or this, and she is one of my favourite people in the whole world, not just the forum. I don't know who she voted for either time, tis not important and I assume our relationship will continue regardless.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

So sorry, gang.
Can't think what else

 

[Prairie Mom]

I don't understand.
I was not objecting to your vote this year or last.
I have no idea who you voted for, or even if you did last year, saw you voted this year but don't know , or care who for.
I think you are confused, I, in no way hoped you would , expected you would or was disappointed you didn't vote for Tidgy.
Sorry if you felt that, but can't understand why.
This thread is fun and informative.
But it belongs to a lot of people and was, once upon a time, my refuge.
Personal promotion.
But i'm gone now, nobody is actually interested, this beast belongs to others.
You are such an intelligent being.
I am overwhelmed.

I can't believe you're leaving for the 3rd time and now because of me! I was trying to be kind. Unbelievable. Don't leave on my account. I'll stay away. Sheesh.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

I can't believe you're leaving for the 3rd time and now because of me! I was trying to be kind. Unbelievable. Don't leave on my account. I'll stay away. Sheesh.

You miss understand.
I am leaving soon, and finally, but not because of you.
But not until this comp is finished.
Your idea of being kind is an odd one..
I will certainly not leave my own thread on your account.
But thanks anyway.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Good night, Cold Dark Roomers.
Night night, Cold Dark Room.
I'm off to find the ceiling, may see you soon.

 

[johnandjade]

oh my good mornooning one and all

 

[johnandjade]

as promised

 

[JoesMum]

Good morning all.

Sorry to read the disagreement from last night - sometimes it is better to say nothing at all - it would seem that trying to further explain a position from both sides just made matters worse

I'm not sure where I am with the project. It may have been kicked to touch; I'll be disappointed if it has. Plan A is a no go for Josh, his suggested Plan B is likely to result in me landing a VAT bill (and the exchange rate would mean least profit for TFO) so I am pursuing plan C now. I need to do some costings and work out some practicalities.

People are being ill here. JoesDad and brother but have come down with colds. Or possibly dying imminently from serious man flu I may not be entirely sympathetic

I'm off to buy some stewing steak and lamb's kidneys - I feel the urge to make a pudding in this autumnal weather.

Happy weekend everyone

 

[jaizei]

as promised

Do you do requests?

 

[johnandjade]

Good morning all.

Sorry to read the disagreement from last night - sometimes it is better to say nothing at all - it would seem that trying to further explain a position from both sides just made matters worse

I'm not sure where I am with the project. It may have been kicked to touch; I'll be disappointed if it has. Plan A is a no go for Josh, his suggested Plan B is likely to result in me landing a VAT bill (and the exchange rate would mean least profit for TFO) so I am pursuing plan C now. I need to do some costings and work out some practicalities.

People are being ill here. JoesDad and brother but have come down with colds. Or possibly dying imminently from serious man flu I may not be entirely sympathetic

I'm off to buy some stewing steak and lamb's kidneys - I feel the urge to make a pudding in this autumnal weather.

Happy weekend everyone

it wasn't good reading was it .

morning mum . i suspect man flu, possibly contacted from the meerkats. hope you have a good day

 

[johnandjade]

Do you do requests?

i will do when i finish work. don't have any blue paint though