Oh Kathy, I so feel for you. My daughter would not nap ever. It was exhausting.I cried last night
I never cry!
My husband gave me hug and the waterworks started.
I have been feeling very stressed out watching my 17mo old grandson.
He is fighting his naps and I spend 2-3 hours trying and I'm way behind on my house chores plus all my kids activities. It been happening for like 2 weeks. He falls asleep on me in 2 minutes but wakes as I lay him down
Yesterday I drove him around town for 45 minutes and he stayed awake!
So I had a couple of drinks and went to bed early.
I felt much better today.
Thanks for listening/reading![]()
At 17 months they're very defiant and, I hate to say this, but tough love involving a bed in a safe place and a child gate so he can't get out is needed.
You also find that the better he sleeps at night the worse they sleep by day and I know which I prefer.
I used to take her out for long walks in the pushchair. She'd fall asleep and then I would leave her asleep in the pushchair outside the back door (with rain cover and blankets as necessary) while I got on with my jobs. It was the only way.
We used controlled crying to get her to stay asleep at night.
Night 1: She cried, we would go and comfort her but not pick her up and then leave her, returning every 15 minutes until she was asleep. It took forever and a lot of stress for me.
Night 2: Same again, but every 20 minutes - it took about 2 hours.
Night 3: She gave up after half an hour and slept through the night.



