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I can't bear to hear it when ANYONE speaks about themselves negatively. It's never true!!!:<3::tort::<3:

Lately, I've had to think long and hard about not letting my happiness or even my sadness depend on anyone else. I constantly remind myself that it's MY job to be happy. It's MY job to live a good and fulfilling life. No one else can or should carry the weight of my life on their shoulders.

I sincerely hope and wish you can find your own happiness and share it with people in your life from time to time. Also, it's always been my experience that whenever I tell myself that "I'm feeling unloved" I'm actually ignoring the people that do really care about me. I'm guessing you are more loved than you realize in your dark moments.:)
That's actually pretty wonderful.
 

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Well, I think it bothered you far more than it bothered me...

The song from "Frozen" suddenly comes to mind..."Let it go" "Let it goooo" -What!? I'm around kids all day and can do a wicked Elsa when I'm driving the minivan.
It's totally lost on me.
I didn't think anyone got nasty at all.
And I'm still watching that same cat crapping all over my yard. In case anyone is still interested.:rolleyes:
 

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How can you feel unloved ? When you are part of the TFO ! We are 45,000 strong . That's a large family that all listen and love ya ! And have a lot incommon with you ! Sorry for the bad spelling !
This is Adams room.
If we didn't love him, we wouldn't come back.
 

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For a group as large as ours to always see eye to eye and agree about everything would not be possible.
Disagreement will often strengthen a friendship due to better understanding in my opinion. (Or completely wreck the relationship):eek:
 

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they turn me a whiter shade of pale ;)
You didn't see the 60's with free love , drinking beer , and NO worries !
Now that I'm in the 60's they lied nothing but worries : how are the grandkids doing in school , are the kids doing in life , and what is the wife going to fight about tonight ! Life is great !
 

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You didn't see the 60's with free love , drinking beer , and NO worries !
Now that I'm in the 60's they lied nothing but worries : how are the grandkids doing in school , are the kids doing in life , and what is the wife going to fight about tonight ! Life is great !


i was born n the wrong era :(
 

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Good morning @Linhdan Nguyen. :) What does the day hold for you?
So far i picked up my associates certificate, went to the library to get multicultural books for class & went grocery shopping. I need to cook dinner for tonight and to bring with me to work this week.
Hows your day so far?
 

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You didn't see the 60's with free love , drinking beer , and NO worries !
Now that I'm in the 60's they lied nothing but worries : how are the grandkids doing in school , are the kids doing in life , and what is the wife going to fight about tonight ! Life is great !
I saw the 60s... but I was born in that decade. The 80s were good - university, etc :)
 

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So far i picked up my associates certificate, went to the library to get multicultural books for class & went grocery shopping. I need to cook dinner for tonight and to bring with me to work this week.
Hows your day so far?
Good. I had coffee with a friend this afternoon and we put the world to rights :D

Winding down for the night now. Homemade Thai prawn curry (a cheat's version - probably bears no resemblance to the real thing) and a glass of red wine shortly :)
 

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Good. I had coffee with a friend this afternoon and we put the world to rights :D

Winding down for the night now. Homemade Thai prawn curry (a cheat's version - probably bears no resemblance to the real thing) and a glass of red wine shortly :)
That sounds lovely !
I was thinking about making a veggie coconut curry soup since i bought baugettes, but maybe another day. I have tofu drying to make turmeric tofu and chives stirfry and then fried lemongrass tofu.
No red wine for me but i do have CapriSun ! :)
 
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