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My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we where together through some of junior high (middle school) and all of highschool and collage. Recently we have been having difficulties in the relationship and the other day I went through my hubbies phone and found he had been seeing another woman. I sent the kids to grandma and grandpa's for the week so their father and I can talk. Well things aren't looking up for me in the situation. We have quite a few kinks to work through and divorce recently popped into his mind.
I truly do love this man we have been together as a couple for almost 15 years and I don't want to lose our relationship. I don't want to give up especially for the kids and my love for him. Yeah I'm hurt, but I believe in working things out other than dropping everything. We are going to go to marriage counseling to hopefully work things out and fix any problems in the relationship. I just need opinions from you guys on what you think should be done. I love this man with all my heart and I do still believe there is hope for us. It's not too far gone yet. I don't want it getting to that point which is why we are acting on the problems NOW!
I truly do love this man we have been together as a couple for almost 15 years and I don't want to lose our relationship. I don't want to give up especially for the kids and my love for him. Yeah I'm hurt, but I believe in working things out other than dropping everything. We are going to go to marriage counseling to hopefully work things out and fix any problems in the relationship. I just need opinions from you guys on what you think should be done. I love this man with all my heart and I do still believe there is hope for us. It's not too far gone yet. I don't want it getting to that point which is why we are acting on the problems NOW!