So I went to a taping of a T.V. show yesterday, with my uncle, mom, his daughter and her friend. Over the ourse of the day The girl developed a crush on me. She is 16 and I don't want to hurt her feelings, now how would I know she developed a crush on me, my cousin called me later that night and said she had asked a bunch of questions about me and finally told her that she liked me. I can't even begin to think of how she developed this crush from what I understand from my cousin she liked how I spent time talking to her and listening to her, and odds are I would probably see her at my uncle's family functions, I want to stress I am not considering this in any way, but I don't want to say something that would hurt her feelings. So have you ever had a crush like this? how did you handle it? what would you say to let her down without hurting her feelings.