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Kristina

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Please, please, take the time to fully research why it occured, how it could have been treated, and how to prevent such things in the future.

It saddens me when I see someone with a sick or injured tortoise. What saddens me even more is that when the tortoise passes, often the owner is more worried about how and where to aquire another, than why their tortoise died, and what could have been done to prevent it.

It is all about learning from your mistakes. We have all made them. Some of us have paid dearly for them. When we offer advice, it is simply because we do not want to see you go through the same heartache. Above all, we do not like to see the tortoises suffer.

I am not at all implying that those that have lost a friend were negligent or purposefully harmful. I am simply asking that those who have a tort that passes stop, and reflect. Ask yourself, "Why did this happen, and how can I keep it from happening to my next tortoise?" BEFORE you bring your new pet home.

My first tortoise died tragically. I had him for ten years. He was my buddy (at least on my end, lol.) At 12 years old I spent time every day preparing his food. My oldest daughter was only a toddler when he died, but she, at 8 now, remembers me taking care of Gomer.

I had built him an outdoor garden that I thought was safe. It was not safe enough.

One night a predator got into Gomers garden and killed him. I won't go into details, but it was horrible. I found his body the next morning, and sat, in my yard, rocking back and forth and sobbing uncontrollably.

I made my big mistake, and it cost my sweet little boy his life.

It was 5 years, FIVE YEARS, before another tortoise came into my home. Not because I did not want one, not because I could not buy one, but because I WOULD not. I was determined never to make the same mistakes again that I had made with Gomer. I spent a lot of time researching and compiling information, which eventually led me to build my website.

All I ask is please, do your homework. Accept the advice given with an open mind. There are a lot of people out there that know what they are doing with tortoise care, but there are also plenty that *think* they do. A person that has cared for torts for twenty years has experience, but if they have never IMPROVED or CHANGED their methods somewhat along with changes in medical, environmental, and dietary information, then they are, in my mind, no better than a newbie.

There are people that hand out bad information, and the person informing you could be a student of that school, too.

Most of all, if you ask a question, expect an answer. If it does not agree with what you have already learned, instead of arguing, research. See what others have to say about the same advice.

Take the time to be sure that your family members, present and future, live the most fulfilling lives possible.

Tortoises are some of the most ancient creatures on earth, and with even only mediocre care, most of our pets will outlive us by many, MANY years. Don't they deserve more respect and regard for their lives?

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Thanks for sharing about Gomer...what an horrible thing you all had to endure...so sorry =(

It's stories like yours that made me commit to lock my tort in his dog house at night (or bring him inside)...or...like hearing about the sulcata from AZ that caused a traffic jam (glad my tort will be tagged--still waiting for it to arrive from F&G--I'm also always checking for possible escape routes).

I'm a brand-new tort mommy and I hope to God I (or my tort, Oogie) never have to go through what you and so many others have. I hope that all newbies are open to the advice that so many here have to offer!

I have had 2 pet tragedies involving cats (not problems repeated)...I let one get fat, thinking it was cute...well, he got stressed when we had house-guests and stopped eating for a few days...this led to irreversible hepatic lipidosis...after 2 weeks of me syringe-feeding him and giving him IV's, he died-->DON'T LET YOUR CAT GET FAT! if your cat is fat, he needs to diet under the direct care of a vet!
the second story...i thought coyotes were afraid of humans & wouldn't come near one...i was in my garage late at night with the light on...i let my cat wander into the driveway (only 10ft away)...in a blink of an eye, a coyote grabbed him and dragged him across the street. i was able to scare off the coyote but my kitty died of 2 punctured lungs on the way to a pet ER. Now I don't let my kitty outdoors at night.

For the lives lost, hopefully many more are saved when we listen and learn from others!
 

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I couldn't have said it better than Kristina or Melissa. Nothing else needs said by me.

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ummm...this post got me thinking more about raccoons...started reading more about them and realized that Oogie's dog house is NOT raccoon-proof! apparently, they are smart enough to figure out the child-proof lock...they can easily slip through the 3" gaps in the door window area (and can easily chew through the plastic mesh covering it)...they can dig under the house and push up on the floor (the panels lift off). i could simply fix these weaknesses...BUT...

i decided he sleeps inside from now on!
 

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Kristina
Thanks a lot for sharing all this and I am really sorry to hear about Gomer.
 

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You are welcome, and thank you. It still bothers me after all these years.

I just want people to take the time to really pay attention to their tortoises' needs, and realize that this is not a contest of who has the most tortoises or experience or whether or not you are right or wrong... It all boils down to the welfare of our animals, period.

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Thanks for sharing about Gomer...what an horrible thing you all had to endure...so sorry =(

When I came in off the road my Big Bubba was my co-pilot the whole time I was over the road. So when we came off the road he was 32 pounds, he stayed there for several years and now he's on a weight management program and he went to 27 then now he's 22. So for a 14 year old truck driver kitty he's losing weight in a healthy manner...You need to be very careful with cats losing weight because their organs shut down if they lose too much too fast....I am sorry to read about Gomer...
 

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Hi, I addressed or rather asked about alot of the enclosures on this site and the potential for raccoon invasion. It seemed not to be a big deal and just thought where I live they seem to be an issue. I had my 2 hand raised beloved peacocks killed by a raccoon that got into my chicken coop and was paranoid to put my torts out. I ended up stringing some electric fencing around the edges and just above it. I have no idea if raccoons know my torts are there or not. I just feel so worried, but I feel they have to be out when they can.The fencing wire and box was under a hundred dollars and it gives me a little better piece of mind.
Losing a pet just sucks and when it's a tragedy like that it seems even worse.
 

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This really made me think, i mean i have actually seen a lot of posts on here in the past about like "omg my tortoise died, but im getting a new one soon" and i just realized how messed up it is.
I do hope that the people that have done this realize that it's wrong, i mean i know that if my tortoise died it would take me years to get a new one and i would probably adopt after that, before i got my tortoise i didn't know much about all the tortoises in need, so i bought mine from the pet store, but i have read up on it a lot and i think if i ever wanted an aditional tort i will adopt.
 

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If what I wrote made just one person stop and reflect, then I am happy.

I just responded to a post on another forum where someone lost their snake. He wasn't sure how it happened, MAYBE his little neice got into the enclosure and let it out. He wasn't even bothering to LOOK for the snake, but going to buy another one! I told him that he needed to figure out HOW the snake got out in the first place, and at least LOOK for the poor thing! I have heard of lost snakes turning up 7 months later. I also told him if kids were an issue then he needed to get some childproofing. I just don't understand some people...

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