Hey all, not sure where to place this, but I frequent this section so here it goes...
My oldest child has Asperger Syndrome. He is an awesome kid. He's really well behaved, a totally goofball, and extremely gifted in the area of music and auditory processing. But the poor kid can't catch a break at school. We have caught for his educational rights since kindergarten and in 4th grade things were so bad that I pulled him out of school to homeschool him. I had my youngest during that year and it made homeschooling very difficult. A newborn and a special needs kid was more than I could handle. The pressure of his education on my shoulders was intense, and he wasn't very motivated and struggled to focus for a variety of reasons. He has some pretty major ADD symptoms, focusing on an undesired task is hard for him, but it is for more lol. Anyways, so I put him back in school after we moved across town, and we retained him because none of us felt he was ready for middle school, so he got another year of elementary (5th grade). The year went pretty darn smooth as far as his education went, despite a few issues with peers.
But now he is in middle school and he is doing ok socially and with peers but he's having problems with two people from the special education department. His base teacher and one of his aids. They are saying things to him that aren't appropriate and sometimes downright verbally abusive (coma prig him to a 3 yr old and calling him a liar). They are denying these things and I'm so fed up. My son isn't a behavioral problem of any kind yet his base class is full of kids with behavioral problems. He is only in there because of his extreme issue with anxiety. Problem is, this classroom and two of the teachers for that class, are keeping him stressed. When I bring it up, they minimize it. "He's exaggerating."
I just don't know how I should handle this. I have found an advocate and am going to call a meeting but not sure what I should demand be done. Im just venting but any words of wisdom would be appreciated. Thanks for listening.
My oldest child has Asperger Syndrome. He is an awesome kid. He's really well behaved, a totally goofball, and extremely gifted in the area of music and auditory processing. But the poor kid can't catch a break at school. We have caught for his educational rights since kindergarten and in 4th grade things were so bad that I pulled him out of school to homeschool him. I had my youngest during that year and it made homeschooling very difficult. A newborn and a special needs kid was more than I could handle. The pressure of his education on my shoulders was intense, and he wasn't very motivated and struggled to focus for a variety of reasons. He has some pretty major ADD symptoms, focusing on an undesired task is hard for him, but it is for more lol. Anyways, so I put him back in school after we moved across town, and we retained him because none of us felt he was ready for middle school, so he got another year of elementary (5th grade). The year went pretty darn smooth as far as his education went, despite a few issues with peers.
But now he is in middle school and he is doing ok socially and with peers but he's having problems with two people from the special education department. His base teacher and one of his aids. They are saying things to him that aren't appropriate and sometimes downright verbally abusive (coma prig him to a 3 yr old and calling him a liar). They are denying these things and I'm so fed up. My son isn't a behavioral problem of any kind yet his base class is full of kids with behavioral problems. He is only in there because of his extreme issue with anxiety. Problem is, this classroom and two of the teachers for that class, are keeping him stressed. When I bring it up, they minimize it. "He's exaggerating."
I just don't know how I should handle this. I have found an advocate and am going to call a meeting but not sure what I should demand be done. Im just venting but any words of wisdom would be appreciated. Thanks for listening.