Remember torts don't feel things the way we do ! They don't get lonely just happy to be alone ! That " struggleing " is making their system work to poo ! But why make the bed your just going to mess it up tonight ?I think he thinks, "Get me out of here!" He struggles when i put him in his tub, but is perfectly happy when he soaks himself in that tub. And his heart says, "Feed me!" That's about it, I think.