Littleredfootbigredheart
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Lol wellington you and me both trust me! I feel thisšThat's not me. I care more about animals than humans.
I 100% agree with you on always pointing out the wrongs! Thatās why I would never personally give a compliment like ācute tortā or ānice spaceā or the ārightsā as Ryan put, and then move on, I do think theyāre potentially a good thing to add though, to encourage engagement with the person, who I like to think for the most part, has good intentions.
I understand your approach and itās often reflecting my inner monologue I canāt lieš„²
But I think, and I could be wrong, where Ryan has been coming from is, its potentially more rewarding to try and gauge different approaches better for individuals, see what they seem to be responding to best.
I donāt want you to loose the very frank and very factual way you write, because I think itās often the most effective, but maybe thereās times where being that little bit softer will help us achieve our ultimate goal, which is always to help the animal.
If we loose that interaction with the human, we loose that ability to help the one we care for most hereš¢
Honestly though when itās clear someone has no intention of changing or doesnāt care to, I understand the frustration coming out! I canāt hold back myself sometimesš£