COLD DARK ROOM

[Gillian M]

everyone at CDR.
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[johnandjade]

everyone at CDR.
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good night ma'am. a good nights sleep will do the job with a bit of luck.

 

[johnandjade]

nos da all. ed, enjoy your night and good luck finding eggs

 

[ZEROPILOT]

Busy day.
I ended up buying another 400 square feet of the same flooring because Home Depot isn't going to carry it anymore and I don't want the floors to look like a mismatched quilt.
Now I've got to rip up the kitchen, the hallway and one bedroom.
I'm trying to get myself motivated now.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

WAIT ! i love you ! i love having you in the CDR. I'm sure we ALL do. I'm sorry i havent been on alot lately. School is really killing me. I miss being on the forum ALL the time. And I do try to pop in when I can.
And I'm taking a little break from my essay so i'm here reading the posts from this weekend

Golly, thanks!
I love you, too.
Hope school's getting a bit easier.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

No Adam?

Occasionally.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

I can't bear to hear it when ANYONE speaks about themselves negatively. It's never true!!!

Lately, I've had to think long and hard about not letting my happiness or even my sadness depend on anyone else. I constantly remind myself that it's MY job to be happy. It's MY job to live a good and fulfilling life. No one else can or should carry the weight of my life on their shoulders.

I sincerely hope and wish you can find your own happiness and share it with people in your life from time to time. Also, it's always been my experience that whenever I tell myself that "I'm feeling unloved" I'm actually ignoring the people that do really care about me. I'm guessing you are more loved than you realize in your dark moments.

Tis true.
So there!
I am happy.
Sad is the new happy.
Yep, I have dark moments, but they make the light ones lighter when they pop along.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Well, I think it bothered you far more than it bothered me...

The song from "Frozen" suddenly comes to mind..."Let it go" "Let it goooo" -What!? I'm around kids all day and can do a wicked Elsa when I'm driving the minivan.

Combination of bothers.
Bother them.
If I can be bothered.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

How can you feel unloved ? When you are part of the TFO ! We are 45,000 strong . That's a large family that all listen and love ya ! And have a lot incommon with you ! Sorry for the bad spelling !

Thanks, Grandpa.
But most of those 45,000 don't know me or i don't know them.
And not all of those that do know me will listen or love me.
Which is fine.
I need some cheese.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Good morning all.

Happy birthday to @Marinated mamma for yesterday... sorry we're late in the CDR!

I suppose I'd better get up and take daughter to work. It's either that or lose the use of my car for the day!

Oooooooopppppssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
happy belated birthday, @Marinated mamma
Hope you had a smashing day.
Sorry i wasn't about.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

That's actually pretty wonderful.

Tisn't.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

This is Adams room.
If we didn't love him, we wouldn't come back.

The Cold Dark Room has a life of its own.
It can exist quite happily without me.
Which is good.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

For a group as large as ours to always see eye to eye and agree about everything would not be possible.
Disagreement will often strengthen a friendship due to better understanding in my opinion. (Or completely wreck the relationship)

Hmmmmm.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

I love the 60's !

I'm rather fond of the 1420's myself.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Nope - he said he'll be back for Hallowe'en, if he's popped in at all he hasn't posted.
How's the back Ed?

Halloween may be early this year.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

I sure like him, BUT I WOULD come back. I like lots of people that post here.

Yep.
Glad to hear it.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

I do really like it here ! There are great people Evan though they all have one or problems ( problems = Torts ) and we all have and love them sometimes more then people ! It brings us all together ! We can talk about our problems , likes and dislikes openly . And we try to help and watch out for each other .

Hear! hear!

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

oh my, yesterday was a complete right off . first time in around 3-4 years i called in sick to work. i think my body is trying to tell me it can't take anymore than a couple of beers anymore. only stopped being sick this morning, was in a lot of pain and struggled to breathe at times even anti sickness meds wouldn't work. not fun at all! that was a new experience and i didn't enjoy it time to induce sleep and hopefully be feeling better soon.


hopefully everyone is having a good weekend and are well

Ow! Ow ow!

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Ceiling just fell down.
Oh goodness.
Back in a bit.

 

[johnandjade]

Busy day.
I ended up buying another 400 square feet of the same flooring because Home Depot isn't going to carry it anymore and I don't want the floors to look like a mismatched quilt.
Now I've got to rip up the kitchen, the hallway and one bedroom.
I'm trying to get myself motivated now.

you're not a man... you're a MACHINE!!