The fact that she can laugh should make you feel better, just saying. If it was something she saw as serious she would not have. As for her seniority..... she has experience and that’s what you ask for is it not? Your “social skills” need some adjusting because everyone else can tell she meant nothing by it other then these kinds of posts are seen ALOT.... I posted one like two weeks ago because my tort is addicted to mazuri tort food and was skipping her veggies.
Speaking of my post, I got herbal tortoise hay from tortoisesupply.com and he/she absolutely loves it and eats anything it’s sprinkled on including vitamins and calcium. It’s not really hay it’s like a bunch of different dried weeds and flowers that are tortoise safe and smells amazing. Hope that helps