COLD DARK ROOM

[JoesMum]

it's a catch 22 isn't it .

what confuses me is when jade got her first nip perced, she said it's she understood no kids (brest feeling)

... then out the blue gets the other done, and brings it up?

And that might be the trigger for the drunken conversation. The realisation of the impact of getting both done. When you've had a few, you just say things but probably aren't thinking straight.

You definitely need to have long and sober discussions on this subject.

A relationship counsellor may help you two to have the proper conversation you need to have without accusations, blame or guilt.

http://www.thespark.org.uk/relation...nselling-locations/spark-counselling-paisley/

 

[johnandjade]

I suppose people change and mature and start thinking more about their future, especially if they see friends settling down then starting families. I always said I didn't want kids and have no regrets about not having them, but maybe I just never met the right partner who made me feel secure and confident enough to think that maybe I could be a parent. Lots to consider John!

wibble

 

[johnandjade]

And that might be the trigger for the drunken conversation. The realisation of the impact of getting both done. When you've had a few, you just say things but probably aren't thinking straight.

You definitely need to have long and sober discussions on this subject.

A relationship counsellor may help you two to have the proper conversation you need to have without accusations, blame or guilt.

http://www.thespark.org.uk/relation...nselling-locations/spark-counselling-paisley/

it's actually been suggested before. i could talk all night about it

 

[johnandjade]

weee yaahh wayyhhhh aaaahhhh hooii

 

[Lyn W]

Very poor kick up the pitch from Wales. England catch and run an easy try 16:19

Lyn's language probably fluent in expletives

Yup the air as blue as the English shirts!

 

[johnandjade]

sat ponerining about charity... to me it means understanding and empathy more than 'giving' ?


i am not religious, however i do appreciate and take on board 'outlooks' or 'philosophies!

i (think) ;

' blessed is he. the man who expects nothing....

for he shall not be disappointed'

 

[Lyn W]

That's it!
Super match, sorry for Wales but England never gave up.

Boo Hoooooooo! Sobbing into my Welsh hat!
Sadly I don't think the best team won as Wales had the edge for most of it, but silly mistakes cost dearly.
Exciting match though!
Ireland had a good win over Italy too with 9 tries and they have the extra point so its a close competition.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

sat ponerining about charity... to me it means understanding and empathy more than 'giving' ?


i am not religious, however i do appreciate and take on board 'outlooks' or 'philosophies!

i (think) ;

' blessed is he. the man who expects nothing....

for he shall not be disappointed'

Yeah, more or less, it's self sacrifice and sharing when you have little as well.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Boo Hoooooooo! Sobbing into my Welsh hat!
Sadly I don't think the best team won as Wales had the edge for most of it, but silly mistakes cost dearly.
Exciting match though!
Ireland had a good win over Italy too with 9 tries and they have the extra point so its a close competition.

I'm sorry, Lyn, but after Cardiff beat Leeds !
One stupid kick at the end did it.
Golly.

 

[johnandjade]

Yeah, more or less, it's self sacrifice and sharing when you have little as well.

i also have 'who gives more'




the man with £10 and gives £1

or the chap with £10000000000
and gives £1000

 

[Bee62]

all out for dinner ?

 

[Bee62]

Oh sorry, John and Adam, you are here. It is so dark I cant see you.

 

[Lyn W]

I'm sorry, Lyn, but after Cardiff beat Leeds !
One stupid kick at the end did it.
Golly.

Yup - a real shame
We'll just have to hope England gets thrashed by someone else now - my bets/hopes are on Ireland.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Oh sorry, John and Adam, you are here. It is so dark I cant see you.

Yep, and Lyn's about as well, i think.
And Linda was here not long ago.

 

[johnandjade]

Oh sorry, John and Adam, you are here. It is so dark I cant see you.

en... shooo... deee... gun

 

[Lyn W]

Yep, and Lyn's about as well, i think.
And Linda was here not long ago.

Hi Sabine
Even if you can't see me you should be able to hear me sobbing in a corner.

 

[Tidgy's Dad]

Yup - a real shame
We'll just have to hope England gets thrashed by someone else now - my bets/hopes are on Ireland.

Yes, Italy are a no show this year, i don't fancy the Scots (except John, of course), so come on Ireland !

 

[Bee62]

Hy Lyn !
Good evening. Why are you sobbing ? I hope it is nothing to worry about ?

 

[johnandjade]

Yes, Italy are a no show this year, i don't fancy the Scots (except John, of course), so come on Ireland !

sounds like an invitation for a selfie

 

[Bee62]

@johnandjade

The little bear is adorable !

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