My Husbands Mother has perm. moved in with us. She came to stay with us last year this time, but it was sort of an on and off kind of thing. Anyways, she came back up here perm. on New Years Eve day. Since then, our lives have been hell.
She is 78 and very capable of doing thing for herself, but she will not lift a finger for anything. All she does is sit my my hubbys recliner, smoke a cig on the porch or sleep in the bed. When we tell her she needs to do "something" she argues or just ignores us. She also does this breathing thing that sounds like she is hyper ventelating which really grates on our nerves and when we tell her to breathe right, she ways I am. She has no shortness of breath, this is just a bad habit. Anyways, the list goes on and on, but I will keep it short.
She is making myself and my Husband miserable in out own home and we do not know what to do about it. Also. Hubby and I have been married for 11 years and never had an argument, now I swear that is all we do.
I no longer like her. Does that make me a bad person?
ARKelly
She is 78 and very capable of doing thing for herself, but she will not lift a finger for anything. All she does is sit my my hubbys recliner, smoke a cig on the porch or sleep in the bed. When we tell her she needs to do "something" she argues or just ignores us. She also does this breathing thing that sounds like she is hyper ventelating which really grates on our nerves and when we tell her to breathe right, she ways I am. She has no shortness of breath, this is just a bad habit. Anyways, the list goes on and on, but I will keep it short.
She is making myself and my Husband miserable in out own home and we do not know what to do about it. Also. Hubby and I have been married for 11 years and never had an argument, now I swear that is all we do.
I no longer like her. Does that make me a bad person?
ARKelly