This is my first cat like this...She is the same as my mother, selectively deafI like Yvonne's thought. Could she be deaf? Have you noticed if she can hear or not?
You can try tin foil on items you don't want her on. Maybe a water spray bottle? Can of rocks to shake loudly at her when she is doing something wrong.
I have never had a cat get on counters or tables. I don't know why though. Seems most people have trouble with that.