Ok face mask is on, comfy flannel pj's, Vitimin E on my hands and now that I am all smexy I am ready for Game of Thrones. Bye all, I hope you ALL have a great evening.
sibi said:what did we do to ourselves? I've got perhaps 10-15 more years left on this earth, maybe less, and I'll probably never see my babies have little ones. My hubby will have to care for them, but, he hardly does anything now to care for them except to play or love on them. Now, that's a real father.
Thalatte said:I love Monty python!
Yes I learned the hard way that leaving is no longer a viable option.
Cowboy_Ken said:sibi said:Aw, it's so sad to see little kids having to take breathing treatments must to able to breathe normally. He looks so precious with those rosey cheeks. Does he still have fever? It's got to be rough on you too. Good thing you're still young. I can't do kids anymore, ot even my great grandson.
CtTortoiseMom said:Here is my scary Dinosaur, he is actually growling...
I am watching Game of Thrones tonight!!! Yay!
From what I can tell, although she gets tired, she does great. She's a trooper that I'd feel proud to have on my side. This is coming from the guy who told the gas station attendant if he couldn't fill my gas can and not get gas on the outside of the can, I'd cut one of his fingers off.
You didn't?
sibi said:Kerryann said:sibi said:Yeah, now that's an idea. Plant a row of catus with spine needles, or holly bushes that have prickly thorns, or something like that. Those are great deterrents for brats like them. If your community has such struck by-laws, then there's got to be something about residents walking through other resident's property. Look into that.Kerryann said:emysemys said:How about a fence, Kerryanne? In order to keep people from walking in front of my house I planted a grape vine at one corner and strung wire across the part where they can walk through. Its two strands and not easy to climb through.
I am thinking a row of arbovites and some picker bushes but we can't have fences.
That's a good point. I will have to go read the bylaws.
I just looked there is nothing but the video is cute. The walking path is at the end of my culdisac. They are basically in front of my house in the video. http://www.angelfire.com/mi4/foxrungreen/framea.html
It is such a nice place to live I am very sad this has gone so wrong.
My neighbor next door (I am on a corner lot so she is sort of next to me and behind me all at once) has two kids who love to play with cici. Her kids can't go out and play because of the same scenario with those people. She and I said last year that this spring we would come up with a landscaping solution to seperate the yards but not separate from each other. The tricky part is that I am wondering if they would walk around the edging since it would only go to the end of her yard? This is such a weird situation. I love all of my other neighbors and enjoyed the open space in the back yard. The people who were there before them had a husky and before that a golden retriever.
We had these bushes between our house and I'd be like Mike (the guy behind us, not my hubs) can I trim these bushes back?? he'd answer like do whatever you want. There was so much mutual respect. We never said anything about the kids playing in the central area but the other kids were respectful, they didn't walk up by peoples houses or if they were really little and did their parents would correct them.
I'm sure there a by-law that you can use to stop them from trampling through your property. I would first send her a nice letter requesting the she and the kids respect your space. If she doesn't listen, send her another letter, this time you attach a copy of the first, and cc the community board of homeowners assn. If she still doesn't listen, video type all the traspasses, and file a formal complaint with the homeowner 's assn. She'll have to listen, or they can force her to move...in fact, it can even get worse than that. That should do it. But, it will take patience and persistence on your part. It will be worthwhile in the end. You all don't have to suffer with that woman and her kids. It may even be that her husband may not even be aware of the situation. If he has any sense, he may put an end to it himself.
sibi said:I want some pie. I want some sweet potato pie, yummy to the tummy. And, of course with vanilla ice cream. Ooo, I got to tell you all...my hubby's company is taking all the worker wives out for an evening of wine tasting. We were just informed that they rented a hummer limo for the evening!!! I will be taking pls ty of pics to show you all. Don't know what to wear. I want to be dressy but I want to wear pants. Anyway, I think I'm getting the silent treatment from everyone except Kerryann. Where's Cowboy? Where's Ja qui and Erin a d Thalatte and the others?
Jacqui said:sibi said:Mad at what? Didn't get to catch up yet, but you might as well spit it out?
Jacqui said:I am glad Sibi isn't mad at me. She could be one tough cookie to be against you.
Is there ice cream for the pie?
Was referring to your take action against the neighbor lady and kids. Your just the type who doesn't take crap from anybody. (Sibi this was meant as a nice thing)
sibi said:I want some pie. I want some sweet potato pie, yummy to the tummy. And, of course with vanilla ice cream.
For awhile in Nov/Dec I had a craving for this. Bought several frozen sweet tater pies and enjoyed them off and on for weeks. I went with whip cream on them though.
Kerryann said:sibi said:Kerryann said:sibi said:Yeah, now that's an idea. Plant a row of catus with spine needles, or holly bushes that have prickly thorns, or something like that. Those are great deterrents for brats like them. If your community has such struck by-laws, then there's got to be something about residents walking through other resident's property. Look into that.Kerryann said:I am thinking a row of arbovites and some picker bushes but we can't have fences.
That's a good point. I will have to go read the bylaws.
I just looked there is nothing but the video is cute. The walking path is at the end of my culdisac. They are basically in front of my house in the video. http://www.angelfire.com/mi4/foxrungreen/framea.html
It is such a nice place to live I am very sad this has gone so wrong.
My neighbor next door (I am on a corner lot so she is sort of next to me and behind me all at once) has two kids who love to play with cici. Her kids can't go out and play because of the same scenario with those people. She and I said last year that this spring we would come up with a landscaping solution to seperate the yards but not separate from each other. The tricky part is that I am wondering if they would walk around the edging since it would only go to the end of her yard? This is such a weird situation. I love all of my other neighbors and enjoyed the open space in the back yard. The people who were there before them had a husky and before that a golden retriever.
We had these bushes between our house and I'd be like Mike (the guy behind us, not my hubs) can I trim these bushes back?? he'd answer like do whatever you want. There was so much mutual respect. We never said anything about the kids playing in the central area but the other kids were respectful, they didn't walk up by peoples houses or if they were really little and did their parents would correct them.
I'm sure there a by-law that you can use to stop them from trampling through your property. I would first send her a nice letter requesting the she and the kids respect your space. If she doesn't listen, send her another letter, this time you attach a copy of the first, and cc the community board of homeowners assn. If she still doesn't listen, video type all the traspasses, and file a formal complaint with the homeowner 's assn. She'll have to listen, or they can force her to move...in fact, it can even get worse than that. That should do it. But, it will take patience and persistence on your part. It will be worthwhile in the end. You all don't have to suffer with that woman and her kids. It may even be that her husband may not even be aware of the situation. If he has any sense, he may put an end to it himself.
She lives with her father, mother, and her husband that likes to take his shirt off in November and wrestle with the little girls and have them feel his muscles and tell him how big and awesome they are. When I say November I mean the day after thanksgiving. I have asked her and her dad and he told me "kids will be kids."
sibi said:Jacqui, you crack me up. Of course I knew it was meant as a nice thing. I could never be mad with you though because I know that you are not a vicious person. I know through your various responses to others what a caring, kind-hearted person you can be. So, enough of that. But, you're right about not taking crap from most people. I use to interpret legal documents for a living once. I could read between the lines, so to speak. And, very little thi gs in life really scare me, except that pit/boxer monster killer next door. Also, Kerryann still had a recourse based on the by-laws of the homeowners assn. I'll have to yell her about it when she gets back on.
CtTortoiseMom said:Fingers crossed! I am so run down my dark circles under my eyes have dark circles, haha!!
sibi said:You know Erin and crew, we should crash on Cowboy's place instead of New York. Since Ken won't come to New York, we'll just have to bring New York to him. And along the way, we pick up Jacqui and who else lives in Nebraska?
Oh, it's just a pipe dream, nobody is going to visit anyone. We all have our animals to care for and won't leave them with anyone. I just realized with my trip to Israel, I can't travel anymore. I've go no one to care for all my animals. And, I won't leave them at a boarding place. I don't trust any place, not even my mil, especially not her!
CtTortoiseMom said:Ok face mask is on, comfy flannel pj's, Vitimin E on my hands and now that I am all smexy I am ready for Game of Thrones. Bye all, I hope you ALL have a great evening.
Thalatte said:I have piper brainwashed so well... I gave her the option of what books to read. Either one about a teddy bear, puppy or turtle! As soon as she heard turtle she came running!
sibi said:Shoot...that's what you have living next to you? The bylaws state that they are in compliance with the laws of your township. Every township has laws against trespassing. With the appropriate signs, they has to stay off your property or you can call the police. Warning them in advance may just avoid bigger problems down the road. Be sure you first notify your homeowners assn of your intent. They may just be able to intercede on your behalf.
Just an afterthought...aren't neighbors fun? That's why I hate leaving my home. Some people *iss me off to no end. I'd love to live like Jacqui and Cowboy. No people for miles around, but just a couple of close friendships from time to time. And, forum friends are the best. They can tell you straight up how to do things. When you need TLC, they are there for you. And, it's not fake either. I hope things get resolved soon. Mikey sounds like a blast.
Jacqui said:Don't know about last night, but it was this am.
Cowboy_Ken said:Karen just said, “Ummmm, you invited everyone in the forum to our house?"
I probably should have run that past her it would seem…
Cowboy_Ken said:Mrs.C. , how did adventures in doctorland go today?